propriety
This burden of propriety is becoming too high.
Instead of acting predictively (if I do this, will it be proper? what is the most proper behavior at this time), I think it will be better if I act reactively (do a particular thing more consistent with personal happiness; and then monitor the response of other people, and take slight care that other people are also happy with it).
I have been obsessed with predicting, which has been taking much of my mind space -- with the more free reactive behaving mind, I guess I will be more relaxed, thus boding good for spontaineity and clarity.
Instead of acting predictively (if I do this, will it be proper? what is the most proper behavior at this time), I think it will be better if I act reactively (do a particular thing more consistent with personal happiness; and then monitor the response of other people, and take slight care that other people are also happy with it).
I have been obsessed with predicting, which has been taking much of my mind space -- with the more free reactive behaving mind, I guess I will be more relaxed, thus boding good for spontaineity and clarity.
2 Comments:
At 5:25 AM , LeperColony said...
This entry is somewhat confusing.
At 6:12 AM , Gaurang said...
By this I mean that I always try to predict what is the correct behavior for every moment before going into it, leading to a explosion of thought most times.
Instead of that, I should behave more reactively, like behaving spontaneously, and THEN taking feedback about the action by looking at the audience.
This approach is more natural and relaxed.
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