Just be happy.

I was pondering on one solution that might serve as a panacea to my problems....

I almost wrote that statement inadvertantly, without much thought, as my 10th point in my new point plan, while hurrying down from the company.

It became the topic of my thoughts for the next hour or so.

It was:

10. Dont try to be like others. Just be happy.

Repeating this in my mind, I found bliss for the next hour. The burden that I carried around since childhood seems to have vanished away in a stroke.

Dont try to be like others. Just be happy. This implies that all the burden that I had carried around since childhood of duplicating other people - to change myself for the other people to like me - should be avoided. I found that most of my internal troubles were related to this. The craving for social acceptance. And my natural state was so different from what people want (or so I thought) that I had to live a life of struggle for know what exactly I am and what I should be. To be or to become?

I think, I have now found the answer. To be.

To be, is the right solution.

We should just be whatever we are, and just be happy.

[DRAFT]